• skarn@lemmy.today
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    18 hours ago

    Yes, I write more than twice the work emails than I send. I spend 15 minutes on slack composing a reasoned response with examples and references then edit it down to one sentence. Because I know from bitter experience noone reads long form, at least, not for work. They’d rather spend weeks back and forth on one liners with days in between responses, or only when prompted, than answer one email properly and the whole thjng sorted in a day. Even this is too long. But I’m going to hit submit before the urge to edit overhwlems me.

  • throwawayacc0430@sh.itjust.works
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    1 day ago

    I type like 1000 words, then I realized I’m gonna look so stupid if nobody reads it and it remains at 1 vote, so I just delete it before I embarass myself.

    (I don’t care about upvotes, I just want to get the acknowledgement that someone read it so I know my time wasn’t wasted.)

    Edit: I wish there was a “read” button. It’s for the times when you acknowledge reading it but you don’t like it enough to upvote it.

    Can someone add this to Lemmy? 👀

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    22 hours ago

    More like “Oh god, what if they reply? I don’t have the time for this.”

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        23 hours ago

        Hah! I would have estimated more like one percent but I do still type with a real keyboard occasionally, where I am markedly faster and more accurate. Nevertheless, I still delete most emails, notes, comments, etc without saving them.

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          That’s really curious to me. I delete what must be less than 1% of the things I write with the intention to send. Maybe I’m reckless? Or maybe I think carefully enough before deciding on starting to type something worth sending? I dunno.

          But deleting almost one hundred percent of what you type, seems like a lot of wasted time at the keyboard, to me.

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    2 days ago

    Had the uno reverse of this the other day. I don’t want to respond to this to justify myself, but damned if I’m gonna let this mf have the last word.

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    1 day ago

    Some things aren’t worth engaging with, like when you know the other person can’t or doesn’t want to be reasoned with, or just wants to get a rise out of you.