• foggy@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    I make more than the average household in my state as a single man.

    I can barely keep my life afloat.

    I have a girlfriend who so makes more than the average household in my state.

    She can barely keep her life afloat.

    We are both in relatively stable positions.

    Ain’t no way in hell we could afford to buy a house and have a kid. We would need at least 100% more money. At a minimum.

    I have a friend who, between his wife and him, do make nearly 100% more than us. They have a kid. They… Are hoping their lease agreement doesnt change because what’s available for housing is a joke, and expensive.

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      1 year ago

      It doesn’t help that most “pro family” research groups are right wing lunatics telling our leaders that it’s not their fault that people aren’t having kids

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        If I bought an average 4br 2 bath house today and got two average car leases and spent an average amount on utilities, taxes, food, kids clothes, and live an otherwise austere life, it would run about $7500/month.

        If I wanted to save for vacations, hobbies for the kids… Pay for private school and college? Itd be about $14k/mo.

        So basically raising 3 kids requires your household pulls down between $150k and 350k to live the American dream.

        Minimum wage pays $14,500/year.