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  • I’m not gatekeeping at all. That’s a simple factual statement. I don’t look down on them, they do good things, so does the Catholic church.

    Real Buddhism is not a religion. It has no baggage. It’s a practice. People who do the practices are Buddhists without needing to say. They simply are, you are what you DO. Not what you say.

    The entire dhamma could be obliterated and it could be regenned with the practice.

    Zen Flesh Zen Bones has an account of that… Monk sees master burning the books… “What are you doing?!”

    Master says, “What are you saying?”

    Religious people have holy things, practicers don’t.

    Try remaking a religion from scratch with prayer.

    So religions are what they are, not my cup of tea. Static, unyielding to change. Outdated.

    Can’t gatekeep the truth.






  • I related to him strongly, but talking that way was outrageous at the time, when I did it I felt more at ease but people got angry.

    I’ve wondered if Spock was a nod to Dr. Spock by Roddenberry, because he was a cultural icon at the time, including being roasted by comedians and newspaper columnists.

    All this current environment happened in steps and leaps and with people building on previous work.

    Bill W was going around with bottles of LSD to try to break addiction at 12 step meetings, beatniks led to hippies, the culture was cracking open at the seams, meanwhile all boomers are the same and never dealt with any personal or cultural struggles, since there were no protests about the war in Vietnam or musicians dying of overdoses or people shot at Kent State or the president then his brother being shot to death. No struggles at all.

    In contrast, at that time neurodiversity was a small issue, it rarely made the papers in a time when even plain old gayness was shocking enough. When it did it was just filler about weird intractable kids in Dear Abby, no mention of leaded gas fumes and cigarette smoke everywhere people went, no thought of Agent Orange factories or burning rivers having anything to do with it…why can’t these kids act normal?

    A ND kid in the 60s was just laughable and weird and hopeless, nerd was not a nice word at all, no love in its usage.

    Unless they shrugged resignedly and masked. People who were kids from that time still reflexively use NT behaviors as reference points, that’s how one got through.

    It wasn’t a joke: I still have a chip missing from a front tooth from having my face rammed into the rail of a schoollbus seat.



  • Read Neurotribes by Steve Silberman

    One asshole at Hopkins, leo kanner, sat on neuridiversity info all through most boomer childhoods.

    Their parents got blamed for it by their own depression-era parents.

    There was only one way to be, only certain foods, everything else was either a sin or a personal failure. Those kids could not answer questions honestly, just repeat back the same approved cultural pablum that maga wants to go back to.

    Simple has several meanings.

    The only light was Dr. Spock, but too subtle for many readers, he had to couch things carefully in his time and the culture was deafening.

    Only after Lorna Wing released her work in the 70s did it start to normalise for some Gen Xers.





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    Pulling into an area, the odds of unwanted clinging proximity decrease with more turns made and the more gnarly the road choices appear.

    Simple flow chart with unpopular choices. Three gnarly turns in a row is pretty solid.

    If it’s ugly looking, of course walk it first. Even big puddles will deter weaklings and tweaklings.

    Thus I’ve woken in the middle of the night because the moon has come up and I’m surrounded by lowing cows, or being bumped by a bear, or being practically deafened by profound silence (mostly).



  • We need National Trackage Rights in the USA.

    They had no problem deregulating trucking si that any company can serve any customer, let railroads do the same, i.e. Union Pacific can serve BNSF or NS customers.

    And large customers, esp hazmat shippers, can run their own trains. The environmental disaster in East Palestine, Ohio likely woukd not have happened if those chemicals were self-shipped.

    Railroads used to have to run their iwn passenger trains, govt formed Amtrak to take the burden off them. We could give successor railroad companies that burden back.