Linux Mint is the easiest one from the list, but all of them except Solus are fine. I personally recommend Mint or Debian, Debian Sid if you want latest kernel.
No, I don’t really need it.
KDE should work fine, maybe with a bit of tweaking?
I thought about that too. If that doesn’t work out, Xfce/LXDE/LXQT it is.
Well, uhh, these requirements. But idk.
Yeah I’ve heard Arch is lightweight, but that might happen in like 5 years :D