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minus-squareCarlsIII@kbin.sociallinkfedilinkarrow-up1·1 year agoYou mean you don’t hyper fixate on a few uncomfortable moments from your past and hold grudges based on those?
minus-squarepomodoro_longbreak@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·1 year agoI like to turn the grudge inward. Me am my nemesis, bane to others and self
minus-squareJorgelino@lemmy.mllinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·edit-28 months agoI mean, i do that too, but it’s always something i did rather than something others did to me. When others are shitty to me, it usually doesn’t stick with me for long, because although bad at the moment, it wasn’t my fault, so i’m guilt free.
minus-squareMartineski@lemmy.dbzer0.comOPlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·1 year agoI barely remember my own life so I indeed don’t hold grudges because I have no idea why I held them or if it was actually my fault that something happened.
You mean you don’t hyper fixate on a few uncomfortable moments from your past and hold grudges based on those?
I like to turn the grudge inward. Me am my nemesis, bane to others and self
I mean, i do that too, but it’s always something i did rather than something others did to me.
When others are shitty to me, it usually doesn’t stick with me for long, because although bad at the moment, it wasn’t my fault, so i’m guilt free.
I barely remember my own life so I indeed don’t hold grudges because I have no idea why I held them or if it was actually my fault that something happened.