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    From my experience working with people of different backgrounds, a lot of people don’t give two shits about what system. As a matter of fact, they don’t even realise it. I worked with Somalis and while I appreciate their excellent work ethic, they work too hard and wish to work seven days straight if they could. But given the worsening cost of living crisis and the pay rise barely budged, what is the point? And the thing is, my Somali colleagues don’t even realise this because they are still new to the country. Moreover, they came from a culture that is not class conscious. And most importantly, their culture is still very traditional. When I say very traditional, I mean that they are still trapped by the expectation that an individual’s worth is tied to how “useful” you are to society. In other words, how useful you are as a worker. So, they work and work and question those who don’t do overtime (I do overtime but I don’t do it every week).

    Capital-owners know the inherent nature of humans to feel to belong as long as one is “earning their keep”, and exploit this nature especially on those who came from background that are not class conscious or not well-to-do. You are shamed if you don’t want to do overtime. It is taboo to say it, but this is why businesses love immigrants because A) they don’t complain due to desperate economic predicament they are put into and therefore less likely to unionise. Then B) their backgrounds are traditional and hierarchical so they are less likely to question authority. And finally C) because immigrants tend to accept low pay because they benchmark their adopted country’s minimum wage to that of their home country which is much lower, and thus think they are “rich” working in factories or cleaners in developed countries (but will they even return to their home countries, which are still too racked by instability to enjoy their new found wealth?). Perhaps more importantly, speaking as someone coming from a poor country myself, many immigrants are materialistic. Many workers think they are becoming rich by working 10x hard and doing overtime seven days straight. This benefits the capitalist system’s self-perpetuating cycle of exploitation. But really, the workers are only enriching their bosses who earn 100x more salary for little work and pay them pittance in return, while also paying half their monthly wages to their landlords.

    It sounds like I am scapegoating immigrants. I am not, because of course immigrants do the job that locals don’t like to do, like in farms, nursing homes, factories and house keeping. But expecting a class conscious and socialist utopia is a nigh impossible sell because other cultures simply value things far too differently. Even in supposedly communist China, they have produced more billionaires than the USA in the past five years, and many Chinese with their new found wealth love to flaunt their newly bought status symbols.

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    most of the people who need to come to this realization don’t know what stockholm syndrome is

    and most of them don’t care

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      I don’t think anyone knows what Stockholm Syndrome is, as it’s just a concept and isn’t recognized as real because it’s usually just used as a blanket term thrown around when people don’t actually know what the specific underlying issues are.

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        Just because something isn’t an academic term doesn’t mean it’s not a real concept.

        I haven’t seen any published scientific articles about you, are you sure you’re real?

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          Alright. Autism is caused by vaccines then. Just because enough people believes something exists doesn’t make something real. Humans do grow attached to people they are in proximity to. It has nothing to do with being the person holding you there.

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        Huh? It’s the notion of captives forming a bond with their captors. People are using it to convey that simple psychological concept. It’s “usually” used for that purpose.

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          I think you missed the point of the response and should look into the scientific evidence for Stockholm syndrome.

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            I think it appears you’ve missed the point of my response, wherein the existence of “scientific evidence” for Stockholm Syndrome is unimportant; The phrase “Stockholm Syndrome” being a part of vernacular meant to convey the notion of captives forming bonds with their captors is helpful for communication irrespective of the existence or veracity of a psychological diagnosis related to the phrase. The point of their response was defeatism through judgment and their own superiority.

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              and i was thinking we’d left all the armchair psychiatrists behind in reddit. it was only a matter of time i guess

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            syndrome
            a group of symptoms which consistently occur together, or a condition characterized by a set of associated symptom

            LGTM.

            Just grouping symptoms. Not implying the assumption of any cause.

            The problem arises when people start considering this one name to be good enough as a diagnosis.

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    Do you own your house? or do you still pay a mortgage?

    Do you own your car? or do you still pay for it through the bank?

    Do you have debt you can’t finish paying until the day you die?

    Then you are you not a capitalist because you own nothing … you own no capital.

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      I own my house, my shitbox car, have 0 debt, and a healthy savings account. I’m still not a capitalist, because fundamentally I make my living through my own labor. That’s the difference.

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      Just stop believing that “you are a capitalist”, of course.
      The rest will come from inside your mind

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      Organize, most obviously via unions and mutual aid networks. Lefties have a lot to say about how to fight back against capitalism; it’s just that nobody listens to them.

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          They work for people who have the balls to fight for them.
          Clearly not you (or Americans as is comically obvious lately)

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            America has had consistent violent and non violent protests from the 2000s on. I’ve gone.

            The fuck are you talking about? Most of you shit breaths come from the most corrupt countries in the world and say shit like this lmfao

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          Uh… They did work, unless you think labor laws and standards are the same as they were in the late 19th century. Then the workers of America stopped organizing so obviously it stopped working.

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            Interesting because I watched the American government in my time completely ignore every protest ever.

            Black and brown people are targeted more than ever, queer people are immensely unsafe currently, labor laws are sliding backwards with children dying in meat factories and guns are still killing kids.

            What did we accomplish exactly? Not much in over a century

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              When is the last time you went on strike for political reasons? Never? Well go change that and then complain. The people who did change things took on more personal risk than all acts of resistance Americans have done since Reagan combined. Look up the battle of blair mountain. Marches are, frankly, pussy shit that are only relevant if you want to meet people to organize for real resistance.

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              LOL
              Did the bad orange man not crumble due to relentless strolling in the streets with a sign?
              Remorseless interpretative dance or defiant acts of putting up stickers!?
              You don’t get change by asking nicely.
              But it’s clear you will fail.
              Never seen such weak, pacified and apathic pussies as Americans.

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                Lmfao this has been the case for almost a century you dummy. Just cause you can’t keep track of history doesn’t mean everyone else does.

                How’d Occupy Wall Street go? Really far I bet.

                How about the countless marches for climate change, gun laws, LGBTQ rights, the classic woman’s march. Nothing.

                You wanna be a little shit and act like there isn’t enough violent protests in America? Go look up any video of any Black lives matter protests there’s numerous levels of violence people have had to endure and express.

                You’re clueless you sit on here and talk shit but know nothing. Dip your mouth in my ass the next time you wanna speak about something you have no clue about.

                Meanwhile what country are you from? Bet you guys are loving it up right now lmfao

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                  Broski, how do you think gay people got rights?

                  How long ago did they march, gain acceptance widely… When did gay marriage become legal?

                  These things didnt happen that long ago, what do you mean ‘nothing’ came of these movements…

                  You simply miss perspective, surely?

                  In the last century, we got civil rights, women’s rights (to vote, to own a bank account, to divorce, to abort), gay rights and well…

                  You guys have started to lose some of those… But they happened within the last century, they were movements that were successful.

                  So clearly popular movements work and you need to readjust your expectations. These things are difficult and take time, you must win the hearts and minds before you can adjust the legislature.

                  Complying preemptively is how you lose everything and fascists win.

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          It’s a good anawer but too vague. What he means is that you need to start discerning between the shit that they want you to believe that will make you rich for example work 3 jobs, invest in stocks, crypto. And start doing things that are really in you best interests like learn to cook linstead of buying always from takeover, learn a trade (I’m trying to learn to sew myself), get a good phone that last you years instead of a shit hyped one, install linux, stop chasing trends and fast fashion etc… Yeah it looks like that new type commie feminist hipster life but it’s happening for a reason is people trying to unplug the lifewire of predatory capitalism that drives you crazy and depressed.

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          If the actions you’re engaging in result in a gain for the capital class, stop doin’ it. Stop enriching the capital class. Stahp it!

          A couple examples like: working for lower wages, allowing them to collect and share your data, engaging in needless consumerism, blah blah blah.

          The point is, they are few and they are united in their shared interests. It’s time we, as the many, do the same.

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              If you’re looking for a revolution you’ll probably be disappointed friend. We’re more likely to see change in the world by interacting with our own community. Be there for our neighbors, even if it’s just to shoot the shit.

              Mutual aid and all that hippy shit is what’s unironically gonna change things. My take is just not to take it too seriously and just be a good person.