That’s where I am. We bought our place in 2016. Since then i became a parent and my house is no longer ideal, but I have a 2.7% rate when we refinanced during covid.

Zillow says our place is supposedly worth 70% more, but houses are still selling for double.

I can’t move. It’s also fucked up that I’m incredibly fucking fortunate to even have a place. If we hadn’t bought when we did we’d be fucked