• Passerby6497@lemmy.world
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    4 months ago

    SO broke up with me in 5 days in cause I was too heavy handed emotional. I went Full Gomez.

    Well yeah, going full Gomez within 5 days is too much for anyone. You probably would have been fine had you slowly ramped up so it felt natural vs some kind of love bombing.

    • Spacehooks@reddthat.com
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      4 months ago

      Lol More like nuke! I fell at first sight so suppressing emotions the whole time we were friends and releasing all that after really connecting so deeply was a bad choice. I truly felt possessed. Like I was a otome character and player kept pressed x. Super out of character for me. Frankly, terrifying so much happened on autopilot.
      Thankfully, I was able to get my wish granted in the end.