• BroBot9000@lemmy.world
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    3 months ago

    Good!

    It’s super creepy and disgusting how some parents use their children as props for social media “content” 🤮

  • unexposedhazard@discuss.tchncs.de
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    3 months ago

    This is really important imo. Kids grow up predisposed to stupid oversharing of their private life. It cripples their ability to experiment and make mistakes if they have to fear being exposed to a giant audience.

    • The Picard Maneuver@lemmy.world
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      3 months ago

      I remember reading something about how gen Z, the first generation that had social media from early childhood, are more avoidant in making big life decisions than previous generations due to the sensitivity to publicly making a mistake.

      Risk aversion is good for many things, but a lot of the best life experiences/accomplishments you can have require taking a leap at some point.

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        3 months ago

        a lot of the best life experiences/accomplishments you can have require taking a leap at some point.

        For sure, im not even a parent yet but this stuff is so complicated to deal with

      • sep@lemmy.world
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        3 months ago

        If you fell on your face before the camera phone. Your 2 friends laughed at you. Nowadays the whole school laughes at the video of you for a week or more. I am not at all suprised that young people are risk avoidant. I feel so very priveleged that I grew up in the slim timeframe while the internet was new and exciting and made modem warbling noises. And not now in the time when we are permanently connected, and absolutly everything on the internet is trying to exploit you, and have a team of psycoanalysts to make it most effective on you.

    • FiniteBanjo@lemmy.today
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      3 months ago

      I tell you what, I said a lot of things as a child that I would vehemently disagree with today. If I had to be branded with that staining my image for life, I don’t think I could deal with the shame.

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    3 months ago

    A friend used to routinely post about her children on Facebook and other SM, until someone claiming to be a grandmother tried to pick up one of her children from school. Fortunately, the school had safeguards in place and followed protocol. All those posts and pictures were deleted immediately.

    • haui@lemmy.giftedmc.com
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      3 months ago

      Its so sad that stuff like this needs to happen before people wake up. The kids dont deserve failures like this as parents.

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        She was a decent enough, but doting mom. She was proud of her kids and thought the whole world should be blessed with their antics. It wasn’t attention seeking or income generating. She just had a blind spot, assuming that because she wouldn’t dream of doing that, no one else would. And it is sad, to me, that she was robbed if that innocence in a very visceral way; but she did learn a valuable lesson and never forgot it, either

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          I think we need to agree to disagree here. Being a parent in this world is (depending on your social status) a dangerous project that asks for a lot of responsibility.

          A billion things can happen and it can kill, maim, traumatize or change your kid forever. I know because I have been one of those kids who grew up under „naive“ parents. Its hell. Life is hell afterwards.

          So this is definitely triggering for me and I‘m not gonna give in to my instincts here since nobody deserves to go through what I went through. Suffice it to say that naive parents are not fit to be parents imo.

  • BarqsHasBite@lemmy.ca
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    3 months ago

    I wonder what they consider oversharing. Where exactly is that line?

    The first article will require parents to officially declare the use of their children’s image online to the Italian Communications Regulatory Authority (AGCOM). If a direct profit is gained from these activities, parents will have to transfer the money to a bank account in the child’s name, which will be accessible to the child after they turn 18 years old.

    Interesting because I think most family channels do it for money now, though as part of a college fund may work. If you have multiple kids and parents in a video how will it be divied up?

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    I’d rather see them put a lot of effort into educating folks instead. If they’re well educated about how everything works, this issue, and others in the future, would be addressed.

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      The parents are already “burned” and wont change from some info campaign. The abuse starts before school or even kindergarden age so there is no chance to educate the victims.

  • Lenny@lemmy.world
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    3 months ago

    Thought sharenting meant split custody situations, was confused. Am a little high.