You have been spending a lot of time “not justifying your choices” to other people, when no one has claimed that you have to. So what are you trying to achieve here if not “justify your choices?”
People can absolutely buy or not buy whatever they want. And when bigots do things because of bigotry I can point out that bigotry when people ask why they are doing those things.
The part of you don’t understand is that people don’t have to justify their choices to you.
You have been spending a lot of time “not justifying your choices” to other people, when no one has claimed that you have to. So what are you trying to achieve here if not “justify your choices?”